{"id":5073,"date":"2012-12-11T01:00:54","date_gmt":"2012-12-11T09:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/?p=5073"},"modified":"2012-12-10T22:57:39","modified_gmt":"2012-12-11T06:57:39","slug":"gratitude-and-gloves","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/11\/gratitude-and-gloves\/","title":{"rendered":"Gratitude and Gloves"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-medium wp-image-5076\" title=\"shutterstock_64247539\" src=\"http:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/shutterstock_64247539-300x225.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"225\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/shutterstock_64247539-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/12\/shutterstock_64247539.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/>I learned something today.<\/p>\n<p>Actually, I <em>re<\/em>learned it &#8212; this time as a grandma.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Don&#8217;t give gloves, no matter how cute they are, to children aged three and under. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sorry, Katelyn. They were so <em>cute<\/em> &#8212; and <em>cheap<\/em> &#8212; and I knew the girls would like the idea of wearing them, especially if they had gingerbread men and reindeer on them.<\/p>\n<p><strong>But I forgot about fingers.<\/strong> I forgot how exasperating it is to get just <em>one<\/em> tiny finger into each matching glove finger. I forgot how distressing it is to have one floppy glove finger next to another that&#8217;s bulging with two or three fingers in it.<\/p>\n<p>I forgot that after all the work of putting gloves onto little hands, the main fun for the gloves-wearers is pulling them <em>off<\/em> again &#8212; and then asking (or demanding) to have them put back <em>on <\/em>again.<\/p>\n<p>I forgot how one little thing like a glove can sour a perfectly good walk in the sunshine. Katelyn had asked me &#8212; Nana, the fool who bought gloves for her daughters &#8212; to join them for a walk. After the rough start of looking for gloves, sharing gloves, and actually getting gloves on, the first half\u00a0of that walk was punctuated with one bit of grumbling after another.<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I want my glove to have the gingerbread man on the <em>other<\/em> side of my hand.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I want my seat back.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I can&#8217;t get my glove back on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I <em>can&#8217;t <\/em>put it on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;I want my coat zipped.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Fingers <em>in<\/em>!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Want.\u00a0<em>my. <\/em>coat. zip.&#8221; (Little sister)<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Nana. put. guvs. on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;No. <em>Nana. <\/em>on.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;Coat <em>off<\/em>.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>They were implacable. It became so ridiculous that Katelyn and I had to <em>laugh<\/em>. Only the old sin nature &#8212; and a tiny pair of gingerbread man gloves &#8212; could inspire so many ways to be unhappy on such a beautiful day!<\/p>\n<p>Then we had to <em>wince<\/em>. <strong>This must be how we look to God.<\/strong> How many times do we take a perfectly good blessing and turn it into something to grumble and bicker about?<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">A house full of little ones &#8212; rewards from a loving heavenly Father &#8212; but we grumble about their messes, their needs, their childish foolishness.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">A church full of people who love Jesus, but we grumble because they&#8217;re still sinners &#8212; just like <em>us.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><em> <\/em>A hard-working husband, but we grumble because he&#8217;s no more perfect than we are.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Aging parents who have poured their lives into ours, but we grumble because they&#8217;ve made mistakes.<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Houses, cars, clothes, health, schooling, friendships &#8212; all blessings that we can so quickly transform into a reason for discontent rather than gratitude.<\/p>\n<p>I deserve nothing &#8212; nothing but eternal punishment &#8212; but God in His grace has chosen to save me and bless me. May I be content and <em>grateful. <\/em>May He grant me the grace to live a humble life of gratitude, a life that glorifies <em>Him<\/em>, the giver. And may He grant us the grace to teach our children to be truly grateful &#8212; even when they get <em>gloves.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Now there is great gain in\u00a0<a name=\"10\"><\/a>godliness\u00a0<a name=\"11\"><\/a>with contentment, for\u00a0<a name=\"12\"><\/a>we brought nothing into the world, and<a name=\"b\"><\/a> we cannot take anything out of the world. But\u00a0<a name=\"13\"><\/a>if we have food and clothing, with these we will be content&#8221;<\/em> (1 Timothy 6:6-8, ESV).<\/p>\n<p>(Photo from Shutterstock.com)<\/p>\n<div class=\"rtsocial-container rtsocial-container-align-left rtsocial-icon\"><div class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon \"> <div class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon-button\"><a title=\"Share: Gratitude and Gloves\" class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.doorposts.com%2Fblog%2F2012%2F12%2F11%2Fgratitude-and-gloves%2F\" target= \"_blank\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon\"> <div class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon-button\"><a title=\"Tweet: Gratitude and Gloves\" class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon-link\" href= \"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share?text=Gratitude%20and%20Gloves&via=@doorposts&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.doorposts.com%2Fblog%2F2012%2F12%2F11%2Fgratitude-and-gloves%2F\" target= \"_blank\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon\"> <div class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon-button\"><a class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon-link\" href= \"https:\/\/pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/?url=https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/11\/gratitude-and-gloves\/&media=https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/rtsocial\/images\/default-pinterest.png&description=Gratitude and Gloves \" target= \"_blank\" title=\"Pin: Gratitude and Gloves\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><a rel=\"nofollow\" class=\"perma-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/11\/gratitude-and-gloves\/\" title=\"Gratitude and Gloves\"><\/a><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"rts_id\" class=\"rts_id\" value=\"5073\" \/><input type=\"hidden\" id=\"rts_media_nonce\" name=\"rts_media_nonce\" value=\"53a1aa5785\" \/><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"_wp_http_referer\" value=\"\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5073\" \/><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I learned something today. Actually, I relearned it &#8212; this time as a grandma. Don&#8217;t give gloves, no matter how cute they are, to children aged three and under. I&#8217;m sorry, Katelyn. They were so cute &#8212; and cheap &#8212; and I knew the girls would like the idea of wearing them, especially if they had gingerbread men and reindeer on them. But I forgot about fingers. I forgot how [&hellip;]<\/p>\n<div class=\"rtsocial-container rtsocial-container-align-left rtsocial-icon\"><div class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon \"> <div class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon-button\"><a title=\"Share: Gratitude and Gloves\" class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.doorposts.com%2Fblog%2F2012%2F12%2F11%2Fgratitude-and-gloves%2F\" target= \"_blank\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon\"> <div class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon-button\"><a title=\"Tweet: Gratitude and Gloves\" class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon-link\" href= \"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share?text=Gratitude%20and%20Gloves&via=@doorposts&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.doorposts.com%2Fblog%2F2012%2F12%2F11%2Fgratitude-and-gloves%2F\" target= \"_blank\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon\"> <div class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon-button\"><a class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon-link\" href= \"https:\/\/pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/?url=https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/11\/gratitude-and-gloves\/&media=https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/rtsocial\/images\/default-pinterest.png&description=Gratitude and Gloves \" target= \"_blank\" title=\"Pin: Gratitude and Gloves\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><a rel=\"nofollow\" class=\"perma-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/11\/gratitude-and-gloves\/\" title=\"Gratitude and Gloves\"><\/a><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"rts_id\" class=\"rts_id\" value=\"5073\" \/><input type=\"hidden\" id=\"rts_media_nonce\" name=\"rts_media_nonce\" value=\"53a1aa5785\" \/><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"_wp_http_referer\" value=\"\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5073\" \/><\/div><a role=\"link\" class=\"rtp-readmore\" title=\"Read more on Gratitude and Gloves\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2012\/12\/11\/gratitude-and-gloves\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">Read More \u2192<\/a>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5073"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5073"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5073\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5081,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5073\/revisions\/5081"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5073"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5073"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5073"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}