{"id":7792,"date":"2014-01-23T01:00:03","date_gmt":"2014-01-23T09:00:03","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/?p=7792"},"modified":"2014-01-22T22:37:40","modified_gmt":"2014-01-23T06:37:40","slug":"courtship-in-our-real-world","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/23\/courtship-in-our-real-world\/","title":{"rendered":"Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-7799\" alt=\"CourtshipInOurRealWorldPart1,2 012114\" src=\"http:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/CourtshipInOurRealWorldPart12-012114.jpg\" width=\"960\" height=\"640\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/CourtshipInOurRealWorldPart12-012114.jpg 960w, https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/CourtshipInOurRealWorldPart12-012114-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong><em>Courtship<\/em>\u00a0is an emotional topic.\u00a0<\/strong>The very word &#8212; <em>courtship\u00a0<\/em>&#8212;\u00a0can stir up some pretty\u00a0heated discussions. I think this is partly due to the fact that everyone seems to have a different definition for the word\u00a0<em>courtship. <\/em>It&#8217;s probably also due to the fact that courtships do, after all, involve <em>emotions. <\/em>And I&#8217;m pretty sure a lot of strong opinions exist about courtship because we, as parents, inevitably make <em>mistakes<\/em> while trying to do what we think is best for our children.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">After helping guide five of our children into God-centered marriages, I can assure you that we&#8217;ve made our share of mistakes. But God is greater than any mistake we can make, and He uses our weakness to put His strength and glory on display!<\/p>\n<p>Today, I would like to share <a href=\"http:\/\/www.susannahhope.com\/2014\/01\/the-story-of-us.html\">&#8220;The Story of Us,&#8221; Part 1&#8243;<\/a>, the first installment of our daughter&#8217;s delightful account of her courtship experience. In it, you will get an inside view of her thoughts as the &#8220;husband list&#8221; of her dreams gave way to something (and some<em>one<\/em>)\u00a0<em>so much better.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>(Later installments of this story will also be posted here over the next few weeks, as Susannah finishes writing them. Stay tuned for Part 2 on Tuesday, unless you peek ahead on her blog!) \u00a0<em><br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Enjoy!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"rtsocial-container rtsocial-container-align-left rtsocial-icon\"><div class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon \"> <div class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon-button\"><a title=\"Share: Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\" class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.doorposts.com%2Fblog%2F2014%2F01%2F23%2Fcourtship-in-our-real-world%2F\" target= \"_blank\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon\"> <div class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon-button\"><a title=\"Tweet: Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\" class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon-link\" href= \"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share?text=Courtship%20in%20Our%20Real%20World%2C%20Part%201&via=@doorposts&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.doorposts.com%2Fblog%2F2014%2F01%2F23%2Fcourtship-in-our-real-world%2F\" target= \"_blank\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon\"> <div class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon-button\"><a class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon-link\" href= \"https:\/\/pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/?url=https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/23\/courtship-in-our-real-world\/&media=https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/rtsocial\/images\/default-pinterest.png&description=Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\" target= \"_blank\" title=\"Pin: Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><a rel=\"nofollow\" class=\"perma-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/23\/courtship-in-our-real-world\/\" title=\"Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\"><\/a><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"rts_id\" class=\"rts_id\" value=\"7792\" \/><input type=\"hidden\" id=\"rts_media_nonce\" name=\"rts_media_nonce\" value=\"0411b4204a\" \/><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"_wp_http_referer\" value=\"\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7792\" \/><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Courtship\u00a0is an emotional topic.\u00a0The very word &#8212; courtship\u00a0&#8212;\u00a0can stir up some pretty\u00a0heated discussions. I think this is partly due to the fact that everyone seems to have a different definition for the word\u00a0courtship. It&#8217;s probably also due to the fact that courtships do, after all, involve emotions. And I&#8217;m pretty sure a lot of strong opinions exist about courtship because we, as parents, inevitably make mistakes while trying to do [&hellip;]<\/p>\n<div class=\"rtsocial-container rtsocial-container-align-left rtsocial-icon\"><div class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon \"> <div class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon-button\"><a title=\"Share: Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\" class=\"rtsocial-fb-icon-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sharer.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.doorposts.com%2Fblog%2F2014%2F01%2F23%2Fcourtship-in-our-real-world%2F\" target= \"_blank\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon\"> <div class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon-button\"><a title=\"Tweet: Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\" class=\"rtsocial-twitter-icon-link\" href= \"https:\/\/twitter.com\/share?text=Courtship%20in%20Our%20Real%20World%2C%20Part%201&via=@doorposts&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.doorposts.com%2Fblog%2F2014%2F01%2F23%2Fcourtship-in-our-real-world%2F\" target= \"_blank\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><div class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon\"> <div class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon-button\"><a class=\"rtsocial-pinterest-icon-link\" href= \"https:\/\/pinterest.com\/pin\/create\/button\/?url=https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/23\/courtship-in-our-real-world\/&media=https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/plugins\/rtsocial\/images\/default-pinterest.png&description=Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\" target= \"_blank\" title=\"Pin: Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\"><\/a><\/div><\/div><a rel=\"nofollow\" class=\"perma-link\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/23\/courtship-in-our-real-world\/\" title=\"Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\"><\/a><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"rts_id\" class=\"rts_id\" value=\"7792\" \/><input type=\"hidden\" id=\"rts_media_nonce\" name=\"rts_media_nonce\" value=\"0411b4204a\" \/><input type=\"hidden\" name=\"_wp_http_referer\" value=\"\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7792\" \/><\/div><a role=\"link\" class=\"rtp-readmore\" title=\"Read more on Courtship in Our Real World, Part 1\" href=\"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2014\/01\/23\/courtship-in-our-real-world\/\" rel=\"nofollow\">Read More \u2192<\/a>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[43,25,12,30,8],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7792"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=7792"}],"version-history":[{"count":9,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7792\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7804,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7792\/revisions\/7804"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=7792"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=7792"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=7792"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}