{"id":976,"date":"2011-06-28T01:00:50","date_gmt":"2011-06-28T08:00:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/?p=976"},"modified":"2011-06-27T16:05:43","modified_gmt":"2011-06-27T23:05:43","slug":"trying-to-cover-sin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/2011\/06\/28\/trying-to-cover-sin\/","title":{"rendered":"Trying to Cover Sin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-full wp-image-984 alignright\" title=\"cookie-thief\" src=\"http:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/cookie-thief.jpg\" alt=\"Cookie thief\" width=\"240\" height=\"346\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/cookie-thief.jpg 240w, https:\/\/www.doorposts.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/06\/cookie-thief-208x300.jpg 208w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px\" \/><em>\u201cWhoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy\u201d <\/em>(Prov 28:13, ESV).<\/p>\n<p>It\u2019s easy to cover over a sin (at least if it\u2019s <strong>our<\/strong> sin and not someone else\u2019s). We naturally want to cover sin instead of acknowledging it and repenting of it.<\/p>\n<p>Read what <strong>Matthew Henry<\/strong> says about this proverb:<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">Here is, 1. The folly of indulging sin, of palliating and excusing it, denying or extenuating it, diminishing it, dissembling it, or throwing the blame of it upon others: <em>He that thus covers his sins shall not prosper<\/em>, let him never expect it. He shall not succeed in his endeavour to cover his sin, for it will be discovered, sooner or later\u2026He shall not prosper, that is, he shall not obtain the pardon of his sin, nor can he have any true peace of conscience\u2026<em>While the patient conceals his distemper he cannot expect a cure.<\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\">2. The benefit of parting with it, both by a penitent confession and a universal reformation: He that confesses his guilt to God, and is careful not to return to sin again, shall find mercy with God, and shall have the comfort of it in his own bosom. His conscience shall be eased and his ruin prevented\u2026\u201d<\/p>\n<p>I looked up all those big words at the beginning of this quote, and I think we can summarize our methods of covering sin like this:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>We make excuses.<\/li>\n<li>We deny that we have sinned at all.<\/li>\n<li>We minimize it.<\/li>\n<li>We lie about our motives or intentions.<\/li>\n<li>We blame others.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In the case of a <strong>child taking a cookie from the cookie jar<\/strong> without permission, it might look like this:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Excuses: \u201cI was really hungry.\u201d \u201cI forgot.\u201d \u201cI didn\u2019t know I couldn\u2019t have one.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Deny: \u201cIt wasn\u2019t me.\u201d \u201cI don\u2019t have my hand in this cookie jar.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Minimize: \u201cIt was just <strong>one <\/strong>cookie.\u201d \u201cI just took one bite.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Hypocrisy: \u201cI was getting this cookie for <strong>you<\/strong>.\u201d \u201cJohnny was hungry and I thought he might like a cookie\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Blame: \u201cJohnny wanted me to take it.\u201d \u201cYou didn\u2019t tell me I couldn\u2019t have a cookie today.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nWhat about after one child hits another child?<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Excuses: \u201cI\u2019m really tired.\u201d \u201cI\u2019m in a bad mood today.\u201d \u201cI couldn\u2019t help it.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Deny: \u201cI didn\u2019t hit him.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Minimize: \u201cI didn\u2019t hurt him.\u201d \u201cI just barely touched him.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Hypocrisy: \u201cI didn\u2019t want to bother you.\u201d \u201cHe was bothering __. I was just defending her.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Blame: \u201cHe touched me first.\u201d \u201cHe kept bugging me.\u201d \u201cHe makes me so mad.\u201d \u201cHe was being stupid.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nWhen he takes a toy from another child:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Excuses: \u201cI haven\u2019t gotten to play with it at all yet.\u201d \u201cHe didn\u2019t say he still wanted to play with it.\u201d \u201cI didn\u2019t know he was still playing with it.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Deny: \u201cI didn\u2019t take it.\u201d \u201cHe gave it to me.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Minimize: \u201cI didn\u2019t take it. I\u2019m just using it for a little while.\u201d \u201cI didn\u2019t grab it. I just picked it up.\u201d \u201cIt was just sitting there.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Hypocrisy: \u201cI thought someone else might want to play with it.\u201d \u201cI thought it would good for him to learn to share.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Blame: \u201cHe\u2019s played with it all morning.\u201d \u201cHe\u2019s not giving anyone else a turn.\u201d \u201cI didn\u2019t give it to me when I asked him to.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nWhen we gossip:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Excuses: \u201cI didn\u2019t realize it wasn\u2019t common knowledge.\u201d \u201cI knew <strong>you <\/strong>would understand.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Deny: \u201cThis is not gossip.\u201d \u201cI didn\u2019t say that.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Minimize: \u201cI\u2019m just telling the truth.\u201d \u201cI\u2019m just telling you what I think.\u201d \u201cI just needed to tell someone about this.\u201d \u201cI know you won\u2019t tell anyone else.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Hypocrisy: \u201cI just wanted you to know how to pray.\u201d \u201cI\u2019m just really concerned about her.\u201d \u201cI thought it would be good for you to know.\u201d \u201cSomebody needs to do something about the situation.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Blame: \u201cShe was so rude to me.\u201d \u201cThat\u2019s what ___ told <strong>me<\/strong>.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nWhen we complain:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Excuses: \u201cI\u2019m exhausted.\u201d \u201cI\u2019m totally overwhelmed.\u201d \u201cI can\u2019t keep going like this.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Minimize: \u201cI just need to vent a bit.\u201d \u00a0\u201cI feel better after getting this off my chest.\u201d\u00a0&#8220;You just don&#8217;t understand what I&#8217;m going through.&#8221;<\/li>\n<li>Blame: \u201cI\u2019m just so tired of dealing with him.\u201d \u201cCan\u2019t she see what she\u2019s doing to me?\u201d \u201cNobody listens to me.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Hypocrisy: \u201cIt doesn\u2019t seem good for her to never be accountable for doing her share.\u201d \u201cI just want you to know how to pray for me.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Deny: \u201cI\u2019m not complaining, you know.\u201d<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>By our example and with our words, we must train our children to own up to sin, to quickly acknowledge and forsake it. Like Matthew Henry said, \u201c<em>While the patient conceals his distemper he cannot expect a cure.\u201d <\/em>None of us will ever \u201cget well,\u201d we will not move forward, we will not break out of our slavery to sin, until we admit that we are sinners and that we are sinning.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lead a child to the place of acknowledging his sin.<\/strong> Train him to say, \u201cI was wrong. Please forgive me.\u201d Teach him to forsake his sin, changing his course and doing what is right.<\/p>\n<p>Remind him that we serve a God of grace, who gave His Son to free us from sin. We can believe and rest in the words of 1 John 1:8-9, \u201c<em>If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us. <strong>If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness<\/strong>\u201d <\/em>(ESV). 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